Learn how to stop attracting bad relationships and settling for less than you deserve with these life-changing, empowering tips!

Today I’m going to talk about how to stop attracting bad relationships, primarily by not settling. That’s right. You don’t have to settle for less than what you really want, and it’s even okay to be alone until you find that right person.

And, I know that this might not sound easy. I myself didn’t do this for many years of my life.

I didn’t know it, but I was afraid to be alone. I thought I needed a relationship, and this wasn’t healthy for me. And now, if I were to tell my old self how I’ve been on my own for so long and am not only making it but am happy – well, I don’t know if she’d believe me.

But I’m here to tell you that, if you’re like I was and are somewhat scared to be alone or think you NEED a relationship at all times, there’s really nothing to be afraid of.

And, I say this because…

Sometimes great peace can come from shedding all that we don’t need and all that isn’t good for us, keeping what is good and letting go of what isn’t. -alb

This is an amazing concept. No need to overthink things, just do what’s best for YOU!

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Your inner peace is most important: Don’t be afraid to be alone!

If you’re wondering how to stop attracting bad relationships, I want you to think about your inner peace.

Your peace is what’s most important, so don’t be afraid to be alone for a while if necessary. And see the good in your time spent alone, like being able to take time for self growth and to figure out what you really want.

Take time to figure out what’s most important to you, what your core values are, what your overall goals and dreams are for your life, and what’s not going to be acceptable to you anymore (& why).

And, this may be hard to hear but…

Sometimes what’s best for you is letting go of (or at least distancing yourself from) relationships that don’t even make you happy and that steal your valuable peace from you.

And, you can’t put a price on peace! I’ve learned (a little later in life) that things that steal my peace just aren’t worth it, because they affect the quality of my entire life.

When we get this, we can finally find and hold onto the peace and joy that we really crave – even if we don’t realize it. It doesn’t come from the outside, from another person or thing, but from the inside.

Inside you’ll find all the strength you need to do all that you need to do, so don’t give up. Inside of you is the guidance that you need and may be looking for. Just listen for it.

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Now let’s get you a little more inspiration to stop attracting bad relationships, and even be okay with being alone for a while if necessary.

How to stop attracting bad relationships by not accepting less

If you’re wondering how to stop attracting bad relationships, you may be settling – accepting less than you want or less than you know in your heart that you deserve. And, you may feel you have good reasons. But, if you’re doing this you might want to ask yourself “at what cost”.

If you’ll accept all that is bad or hurtful to you just to not be alone, it may be time to ask yourself why – to get to know yourself better.

Trust me, it’s worth it. I’ve done it and I’ve lived to tell about it. And, digging deep may hurt emotionally for a bit but it won’t kill you.

So, dig deep. Look deep within if needed, and begin to be brave and change your life. You can totally do this!

Show that you know you’re own worth, value, & strength

Also, know your worth and accept nothing less.

You were created by the divine, and you’re capable of so much! You are full of abilities and light. And, you were meant for great things.

If no one has told you this before, if you just didn’t believe it or had contradictory experiences or if you’ve just forgotten, I want you to know this. I want you to get to know your own value and really feel it and embody it, so that you’re self-value shows.

When you show that YOU know you’re valuable, you show strength.

And inner strength is needed and will definitely help you in life, when it comes to relationships and getting through difficult times! 

Don’t let anyone take advantage of you, not even in a little way. And, don’t let anyone convince you that you’re worth any less than you are. 

This is why it’s important to show that you value yourself and will put yourself first, because there are plenty of people out there that would like to take advantage of your kindness or of you not valuing yourself.

Protect yourself, follow your intuition, & believe in yourself

You may want to see good in all people like I always have, but it’s also important to protect yourself.

And, protecting yourself is not only important but it’s also totally okay and good to do!

So, remember your worth! And know that if I could get through it and rise above it, so can you – without a doubt.

Trust me, I had so many things to work on and to go through before I arrived at more confidence and more peace within.

So, keep your head up and don’t be afraid of what lies ahead. Make the choices that sit right with you and that are good for you. Pay attention to that feeling in your gut, going with your intuition, and you’ll be fine. And most of all, believe in yourself and in what you deserve!

Closing thoughts: How to Stop Attracting Bad Relationships – (Hint) Don’t Settle

I hope this blog post on how to stop attracting bad relationships has been helpful! I just felt like someone needed it.

So many of us struggle with feeling like this at some point, so don’t feel bad about it if this is where you’re at right now.

I want you to know that you have more strength in you than you even realize and that you can get through anything. So, don’t under-estimate yourself.

I’m sending you support and understanding, and I want you to know that you’re not alone!

We have a forum for women on here (you’ll find the forum button at the top of this page), and I want you to feel free to go on there and find support from other women. We are a community, and we have the ability to build each other up and prevent any woman from feeling isolated and alone.

You matter, and you have support!

Additional resources

If you liked this blog post, you should check out my post called How to Believe In Yourself. In it I’ll help you believe in yourself so that you’ll go after what you want, feel good about YOU, & more.

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